Hey guys! So I know it has been FOREVER since I last posted,
but I promise that this post was worth the wait. I wanted to post something
really special and meaningful because my readers are so important to me, and
what is more special and meaningful than love?! Plus, with it being Valentine’s
Day and all, I thought this was very appropriate.
So for this entry, I am going to be talking about love,
giving you guys some dating/relationship advice, and we’re going to play a fun
little game! But first, let me introduce my super hot models that I borrowed
for this shoot.
Eric
Elliot
Lance
Adam
Michael
Aren’t they major babes? As you read through this post, try
to guess which one of them I’m actually dating… ;) you’ll find out at the end!
Unfortunately, not all of them were available for our couple's shoot. But they were all awesome examples of what guys should wear for any special occasion. Church, fancy parties, or Valentine's Day!
Unfortunately, not all of them were available for our couple's shoot. But they were all awesome examples of what guys should wear for any special occasion. Church, fancy parties, or Valentine's Day!
Okay so let’s talk about LOVE. I think Dr. Seuss truly said
it best: “You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is
finally better than your dreams.” And let me tell you, being in love is just
that. It’s all about the butterflies, the holding hands, the social media
posts. Pretty much anything that lets the world know that you are in a
relationship and it’s better than your dreams!
Which brings me to my advice for all of you lovely people.
Whether you’re in a relationship, single, or even married, all of this can be
helpful for you!
Sense of Humor
Make sure the guy you’re dating can make you laugh. But
also, if he’s not that funny, it’s okay. Just laugh at whatever he says and
he’ll feel so good about himself! That is key to having a good relationship or
getting a guy to like you. Just laugh at all their jokes!
Height Differences
When it comes to height, I am a girl that strictly believes
that a guy should be at LEAST 6 inches taller than you. That way you can wear
heels whenever you want, and you get to feel small and protected by your man!
However, there are some super cute guys who may be shorter than you. If they’re
really attractive, the height thing can be overlooked. BUT it is extremely
important that you never wear heels.
(Just look how awkward it was with me and
Eric!) But the good news is that our photoshoot was fixed quickly just by
taking off my heels!
With every relationship obstacle, there is a quick and
easy solution.
Fights
Speaking of obstacles, sometimes you’re gonna fight in a
relationship. This is totally normal! There are a few ways that you can move
forward from these.
1. Ignore the problem, and learn to deal with it. This has
proved to be very effective.
2. Complain about it on social media, or to your
friends and family. Sometimes you just need to vent!
3. Talk it out and try to
come to a compromise. This is always risky, but sometimes can work out for the
best.
Whatever you decide, one of those 3 options is bound to help
and you’ll be making up in no time!
PDA
PDA (or public displays of affection) is kind of a personal
choice, but I fully encourage it. In fact, my motto is “the more PDA, the
better!” Because like I previously mentioned, you want everyone to know you’re
dating someone!
Well, that’s about all the advice I can think of to give you
all, and I know that if you put some of those things into practice, you will
have super happy relationships!
Now let’s talk about my outfit.
What I love about my Valentine’s Day outfit is that it can
be totally appropriate for any sort of date. Fancy or casual, all I need to do
is change my shoes! For our shoot, I chose to go with fancy, because I really
wanted a chance to wear my red heels. Now, you guys know how I feel about
bright colors, and how I’m all about the neutrals. But for Valentine’s Day, all
that goes out the window. The more pink and red you can put into an outfit, the
better. You basically want to look like a walking Hallmark card. It lets people
(and your date) know that you are fun, flirty, and LOVE love!
I chose my favorite Valentine’s Day shirt because it’s
adorable and so festive, and when else can I wear it?
The pink skirt is one of my favorites, and I thought it
looked so nice with my pink shirt. The two different shades of pink were
exactly what I was looking for when I was picking out an outfit! The pleats give it a flirty vibe and you absolutely must be flirty on Valentine's Day!
I knew I wanted to wear my red heels, and obviously that
meant red lipstick! Gotta keep with the theme. Plus, a red lip is just so classic.
This outfit was just so much fun. I truly wish it was
Valentine’s Day every day!
Okay, so now that you’ve seen all of these pictures of me
and these handsome men, it’s time to guess which one you think is my boyfriend!
Is it Lance?
Elliot?
Eric?
Michael?
Adam?
It’s….. none of them!
I’m actually not dating any of them,
or anyone for that matter! Aren’t you surprised?! I know what you’re thinking,
with advice this good, how are you still single? It’s a mystery to me, too. But
trust me, I am so qualified to be giving advice on dating and relationships. I
have many married friends and you know what they all have in common? Me as
their friend! That can’t be a coincidence ;)
I had such a blast shooting with these cute guys. They were
such good sports, and I couldn’t have asked for better models and pretend
boyfriends.
I hope you guys enjoyed this post, and that you have a
wonderful Valentine’s Day! LOVE you all! See you next time!
Shirt: $5 from Walmart, designed by me with a bleach pen
Skirt: $10 from H&M
Shoes: $10 from Plato's Closet
Photography by: Myself, Michael Bodmer, Elliot Holder
Special Guest: Fashion Blogger AdammaxLA
